“I’m just bad at conflict.” My client shared that with me today during a session.
I asked, “So you’re bad at conflict?” I asked.
She elaborated: “I mean, I have always avoided fights and any unpleasant situation, or anything I thought would make me uncomfortable.”
“Wow. So you ALWAYS avoid any and all conflict, is that right?” I had to ask. She dialed it back a bit and admitted that there had been times when she was able to address conflict in her life.
What I heard, and what I wanted to probe a